So after the profile and pictures are posted you get peruse the other profiles. Most sites have a series of questions that they ask to help refine your search for you. Aren't they sweet? Height, age, sexual orientation, eye color/ hair color and type/facial hair preference, and even income, level of education, relationship status... One of these days they will include a virtual inspection of the anal glands and breeding credentials.... Seriously... I'm all for knowing what you want in a mate, but if you are going to get that indepth, you are going set yourself up for disappointment... In the end you'll have weeded everyone out and created an unrealistic expectation of this "perfect" person. Good luck.
Me? I leave a lot open... I think. I really don't care too much about most of that.... Though i prefer my men taller than me... And perhaps a bit older.
See, where I get really picky is the profile and if he initiates conversation, the content of his opening contact. If i haven't already checked out the profile, i will do so before i respond to an email. If either are weak, i will not reply. If he blathers about how uncomfortable he is with talking about himself... Or misspells simple words, uses improper grammar, or complains about how difficult life is and how lonely he is... Yeah... Big turn offs to me. I know I'm not perfect, but I try and I know I have baggage but its mine. I can no less expect him to want mine, why would he think I'd want his?! As for opening lines... Don't ask me if I give happy endings, or tell me you think I'm sexy (I'll appreciate the compliment, but I'm not looking for them when you only have a picture to go by), or tell me you want to get to know me but are too busy to call me yourself but here's your phone number so call you sometime ( I may not be a Kardashian, but if you are too busy to put out the effort to pursue me, I've got better guys worthy of my time who actually are available, Kthxbai!)....
I'm not the princess type, but i do conform to a few specific gender rules. I will respect you, admire you, and give to you in exchange for the same in return. I am likely to cook and clean for you if you pursue me. I will likely pursue you if you open doors and make me feel of value to you. I don't think that its a lot to expect the best out of the person i may possibly be giving me heart to... Is it?
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